A few years ago, at the height of the dot-com era, some people were sounding the death knell for the tie. It had out-lived its purpose and was overly formal at a time when CEOs were wearing golf shirts to the office. However, tales of the tie’s demise were a tad premature as it has once again stormed back onto the corporate scene. For me, the tie is the part of a wardrobe where you can take some chances (if you want), even in a corporate environment. If you are wearing traditional and neutral colours for your suit and shirt (such as a charcoal suit and a solid white shirt), the sky is effectively the limit when it comes to the tie. If you wish to wear an orange tie with a white shirt and charcoal suit, you will likely look very dapper. In the same way that you likely wouldn’t want to paint your walls bright orange and buy an electric blue couch, it’s better to go neutral with big things (suits and shirts) and have the visual interest come from the accent pieces. So, if you’re a guy who likes a bit of flash, then the mistake is to use your suit and shirt; rather, your canvas should be your tie.

Personally, I tend to wear predominantly blue ties (but that is purely a personal preference). Furthermore, I tend to wear dark, simple ties, as I believe a simple look tends to be a more elegant and simple way to dress. There are a number of distinct issues when it comes to ties and will attempt to cover each in turn: first, there is when a tie should be worn; second, what width your tie should be; finally, how to match the pattern of your tie with your shirt and suit.
Tie widths are another important consideration. There has been a trend, as of late, towards narrower ties. As is generally the case, you don’t want to be on either extreme, with a tie so narrow as to serve as a back-up shoelace, or Michael Irvin wide. I would go slightly narrower than you might have previously (somewhere in the range of 3.5 inches). Most ties currently for sale trend towards being narrow and so you shouldn’t have much trouble finding a tie in this width. The reason why I would encourage you to buy ties in the 3.5 inch range (or less, although slightly wider is fine) stems from the fact that suits now tend to have relatively narrow lapels and thus your tie should be in line with this. I wouldn’t worry about it too much and I myself do not wear a tie that one would call “narrow”, but I certainly don’t wear one that can be described as wide. My favourite ties come from Ralph Lauren Purple Label and Charvet, and both manufacturers create a range of ties that would fit the bill for anyone (and, best of all, are available on Ebay in classic patterns at prices around $50, a savings of around $125).


In terms of when a tie should be worn, I have my own rule. If I’m wearing lace-up shoes, I wear a tie. If I’m wearing loafers, that tends to mean that the occassion is not so formal as to require a tie, and so I often wear an unbuttoned dress shirt under my suit. In my mind, so long as you have a fairly good sense as to when lace-up shoes and loafers are generally the right choice, this rule should serve you quite well. Obviously, your office dress code should play an even larger role in instructing you as to whether a tie is required. Some occasions that always require a tie are weddings (that don’t take place on a beach), funerals, bar/bat mitzfahs (someone please correct me on my spelling) and graduations. Pretty much any other time is something of a judgment call.
Finally, the most important of these issues, at least in my mind, is matching patterns. Between the shirt, suit and tie, you have the possibility for three distinct patterned items of clothing (not including a pocket square, although I always wear a plain white one when I wear one). You could also have no patterns at all (meaning that the shirt, suit and tie are all solid colours). The most traditional and safest approach would be to have one or two patterns at any one time. Having no patterns is a very formal look (not to mention boring) and, surpringly, might not be particularly suitable for the office. To match three distinct patterns is the advanced class and can sometimes look quite good. At worst, it can make you look like a jackass and the primary goal of this site is to prevent you from looking like a jackass (hopefully without having to spend too much money). The easiest possible combination would be a solid suit (say charcoal), a solid white shirt and then a patterned tie. No matter what pattern tie you choose, it stands a good chance of looking good.


However, imagine you were to wear a pinstripe suit. I would suggest that it would be easiest to wear a solid shirt and then a tie with dots or another repetitive, non-striped design. If you want to wear a striped tie, makes sure to make the stripes of the tie different from the pinstripes of the suit, both in terms of spacing and width. You could mix in a striped shirt, but then you would have three distinct patterns of stripes and would have to make sure that each are differing widths and scales. Frankly, that is overly complicated – the amount of time you would spend matching stripe widths could be applied to more worthwhile pursuits, like sleeping in an extra 5 minutes in the morning. Save the striped shirt for a day where you’ll be wearing a solid suit. I would also caution against wearing checked clothing with stripes. This leads to lots of lines going in all different directions and rarely fails to look busy. Again, the foundation of your wardrobe should be solid suits and shirts, particularly at the beginning, so rather than cramming all of your patterned clothing into one, overwhelmingly patterned outfit, spread them out a bit. Furthermore, the most useful tie you can own is one with a subtle pattern, such as small dots. These can be worn with striped suits or shirts, checked suits or shirts and solid suits or shirts. In other words, they take the thinking out of getting dressed at 6:30AM, pre-morning coffee, and allow you to generally avoid looking like a jackass.
In terms of tie colour, you have a few options. First, if you’re wearing neutral shirts and suits, you can pretty much do what you like. Otherwise, there are a few things to consider. First, one option is if you wear shirts with stripes or checks in a given colour, have your tie pick up that colour. Second, always make sure that your tie is darker than your shirt (which, as you may notice, effectively rules out wearing a black dress shirt to work; for further discussions on the subject of black shirts, refer to Corporate Style Part 2). I’m not entirely sure why, but this rule of thumb never fails to make one look more professional. Finally, and this is more a personal belief and not something that I would get up and preach about, but I tend to wear dark coloured ties. As has been discussed previously, darker colours tend to be more conservative and thus more “business-like” in appearance. Furthermore, most guys just look cooler and generally better in darker, richer colours. This is a very cliched reference right now, but one can’t help but notice how well-dressed the stars of AMC’s Mad Men are; note the next time you watch it that they almost all wear dark ties. This is not coincidental.
